The Realistic Post

Here’s what I have left, and a realistic assessment of the liklihood of it happening before April, the deadline. Let’s face it, this list was not too realistic. Particularly considering that, until recently, we had evening activities on three or four evenings a week, leaving precious little family time and practically no opportunity for all of the classes and things I wanted to take.

Learning

Take a bellydancing class. – I don’t even really care about this any more.

Learn German. – Randy and Wally are learning Chinese, which means I’ll be learning Chinese, too, so I’ve given up on German until I can take an actual class.

Take a hip hop class – As with Bellydancing, I don’t even care to learn hip hop any more.

Take a Community Education class in something I’ve never tried before – I would still like to do this.

Go to an event at the observatory – Let’s face facts, the list of topics available for Observatory events are pretty dry. Unless I go alone (unlikely), I don’t see any of the topics that they’ve had holding Wally’s interest one iota.

 

Art/Craft

Take a picture, over the course of a year, of every time around the clock. (this has been modified somewhat, and will now just be several pictures for each hour of the day.) I am still working on this one.

Do the 100 strangers project – I honestly doubt I’ll do this, though it would be an interesting project, it also seems to lack any sort of practicality.

Make something for 10 different people, unexpected (6/10) – I am still working on this.

Participate in 2 charitable crafting projects a year (3/6) – still doing this, though I’m obviously going for an AVERAGE of two at this point.

Make something using my power tools – all of them. I just need to finish one little thing for the chicken coop, but we need a new blade for the scroll saw.

Participate in at least one additional craft fair –  This would be fine, but I’m not going to go out of my way at this point. Craft fairs are NOT a major income source for me and I don’t honestly think that they will pay off enough to be worth the time/effort in pursuing this.

 

Relationships

Genuinely compliment a total stranger once a month.  OK, really? It’s hard to compliment a stranger, particularly genuinely.

Write a letter every other month. Since half the people I know who I’d write to have died, I’m kind of out of people to write to.

Do something surprising and wonderful for Randy monthly. It’s not that I don’t want to do something wonderful for my husband every month. And I DO do nice things for him on a regular basis, but nothing seems to live up to my standard of “wonderful.”

Put together a care package for someone I am still planning to do this.

Help a stranger. I don’t know what I had in mind when I wrote this. But I’ll help a stranger if the opportunity presents itself.

 

Self-Improvement

Bench press my own bodyweight  I don’t think this is my most pressing physical fitness goal. Hiking up Mt Timp again? Yeah.

Touch my toes And the chiro has recently told me to STOP stretching like this. Though I don’t think I’ll be able to touch my toes by April, I am still working toward this goal.

Memorize a poem ach, we’ll see. I was hoping to do some sort of epic poem, but maybe I’ll settle for something short!

Memorize a chunk of the Bible I am definitely working on this.

5 pullups. In a row.  As with benchpressing my own weight, this is not a pressing goal.

 

“Social” or Environmental

Buy nothing for a week.   I can’t imagine I haven’t done this without planning.

Buy nothing new for a month.    Yeah, whatever.

Take the bus instead of driving.    Alright, it’s not that I haven’t tried. It’s just that taking the bus, in addition to being expensive and not too safe with kids having to ride sans carseats, is so inconvenient. Hey, I could load up the car and pull out of the driveway and be to my destination in a few minutes…. OR I could schlep everyone three blocks to the bus stop, pay money, and be to my destination in 20 minutes. Hmmm…. Yeah.

Volunteer a bit for an organization I am not already involved with This MAY still get done.

 

 

Eating Food

Eat only local food for a week – probably not going to happen.

Bake bread for family monthly Yeah, still doing this.

Try 10 new foods (3/10)  I don’t know. It’s not that there aren’t exotic foods that I’ve never tried. It’s just that, well, I lack motivation to cook these exotic foods (and, not knowing what they’re supposed to taste like, I’m not sure how I’d know whether it was right or not). And we aren’t going out to eat all that much.

Have a candlelight dinner This could still happen.

Fast for a day IF both kids wean before the 1001 are over and I’m not pregnant.   Not gonna happen.

 

 

Essential Life Skills

Take a survival class. I would love to take a survival class but we’re having trouble finding one.

Make a will NEED TO DO THIS

Go hunting. This is obviously not going to happen between now and April, but I will be going next year.

Learn to make jam.  Next year’s harvest.

 

 

Completely Random

Dance somewhere unexpected. Unexpected for me. Who is prone to dancing wherever she is.   Whatever, freak.

Participate in a rally or protest or march  Oh, my, goodness. I really really want to, but they always have the tea party things on TAX DAY. Wally’s birthday.

Dress up as something, go somewhere, don’t explain.  What the heck? What would I dress up as? What was I thinking here??

 

For Fun

Go to a Cubs game at Wrigley Field.   Not with Genna at this point.

Go night hiking. Not before April.

Visit 5 new (to me) state parks. (1/5)   Would still like to, but you know, we tend to stick with the tried and true because our state parks can be a little hit or miss…

Go to a movie by myself. I WILL do this.

Go roller-skating. This is on our 2011 list of things to do as a family.

Have Randy teach me to juggle. I am still planning on this.

Host a movie night.  I was planning on a dance movie night, but now I just don’t care any more.

Go to a fun indie craft fair in another city.  Here’s the thing… I’m not likely to travel specifically for a craft event, and the chances of a craft event serendipitiously taking place when I’m visiting somewhere are fairly slim.

 

Other

Participate in postcrossing; use cards as basis for hs learning. Wally’s still too young to really benefit from this.

Take the time to give myself awesome sausage rolls. I don’t care any more.

Write a letter to myself, to be opened in 10 years.

Write a letter to each child, to be opened in 10 years.

Write a letter to Randy, to be opened in 10 years.

 

So there you go.

Late October Update

Hey! Did you know? Mothers of two small children who also run a business from home and teach dance lessons in the evenings get one extra year to try to accomplish some of their tasks, and they also are allowed to change some of their tasks if they realize they might have been on crack when they set them? Well, it’s true.

But in the meantime, here’s an update:

Make Something for 10 different people, unexpected. I need to find some more people to unexpectedly make things for!

Participate in 2 charitable crafting projects each year. I kind of screwed myself here. Craft Hope was doing things I didn’t really want to participate in for most of the year, then I did the pillowcase project, and as it turns out, that’s their last one of the year. So now I have to get more *ahem* creative and figure out what I’m going to do. I might make more Little Dresses for Africa – we’ll see.

Genuinely Compliment A Total Stranger: I do not specifically recall August’s Compliment. In September, I told a random man that he had an awesome ‘stache. (Because he did, and I’m not generally a mustache lover.) This month, I haven’t complimented anyone yet and should totally get on that.

Bench Press My Own Bodyweight: See, this is one of those that I’m afraid I’m going to need more time on.

Memorizing a chunk of the Bible is coming along. Psalm 139, I have verses 1-5, and I’m not sure how far I’m planning to go.

Vocabulary: I’m finding this to be a little tiresome, honestly. I’m not using the words I pick out, because to get to a word I have truly never encountered before, I’m having to reach a little far. So October is: probity n. Virtue or integrity tested and confirmed.

 

Monthly/Weekly Tasks: August

I have stopped reporting on all of these, they get a little tedious.

Compliment a total stranger. Today I complimented the Greenwood Sewer Service guy for his excellent, courteous service.

Write a letter. Today, I am writing a letter to my birthmother.

Something surprising and wonderful for Randy. I brought him free cheese and fudge. He didn’t appreciate that as much as I thought he would, but then again, he’s left the ratchet set out in the rain and it’s going to get rusty.

Vocabulary: scurrilous adj. Grossly indecent or vulgar.

End of summer 2010 global update

Learning

Take a bellydancing class         I’m going to do this this fall. Either the classes at Firehouse Yoga on Mondays, or possibly thru Community Ed.

Learn German. Could I suck any more at doing this? I just need to do it.

Take a hip hop class                Right. I’m having trouble finding one.

Take a Community Education class in something I’ve never tried before                       I will be trying for this this fall. I’m waiting for the new class schedules to be released.

Go to an event at the observatory I was waiting for a summer schedule. Now I guess I’m waiting for a fall schedule?

Art/Craft

Take a picture, over the course of a year, of every time around the clock. This one is in progress. I changed it somewhat.

Do the 100 strangers project No progress made here.

Learn a new craft I have the materials to make molds, and I have the materials to do screenprinting. I also plan to learn to do cold process soap. Now to just do them…

Make something for 10 different people, unexpected (6/10)                I’m always on the prowl for people who I can surprise with a crafty gift.

Participate in 2 charitable crafting projects a year (3/6)                I’m considering some volunteer work for Ruth Harbor.

Make something using my power tools – all of them. I just need to use the scroll saw to make something for the chicken coop, and then this will be finished up.

Finish or get rid of projects in the unfinished projects box                  This will happen when I move my office.

Participate in at least one additional craft fair                  Nothing to report.

Relationships

Put together a care package for someone                I need to find someone who wants a care package.

Help a stranger.                   I need to find a stranger who needs help, lol.

Write to her again.              In progress.

Self-Improvement

Bench press my own bodyweight This is, in theory, in progress.

Touch my toes                  Again, i’m working on it.

Memorize a poem               I gave up on the Lord of the Rings poem and will be finding something smaller.

Memorize a chunk of the Bible Psalm 139.

5 pullups. In a row.                   not even in progress.

“Social” or Environmental

Buy nothing for a week.               No plans

Buy nothing new for a month.                  No plans

Take the bus instead of driving.                        No plans

Volunteer a bit for an organization I am not already involved with                       Thinking of doing something with Ruth Harbor.

Eating Food

Eat only local food for a week                   We’ll just need to pick a week and do it.

Have a candlelight dinner

Fast for a day IF both kids wean before the 1001 are over and I’m not pregnant.

Essential Life Skills

Take a survival class                               Any thoughts on where I can find such a class??

Make a will                    Sigh. Need to do this.

Go hunting              Maybe this fall?

Learn to make jam              Um, I need to first find some cheap fruit, lol.

Completely Random

Dance somewhere unexpected. Unexpected for me. Who is prone to dancing wherever she is.

Participate in a rally or protest or march

Say yes when I want to say no.

Dress up as something, go somewhere, don’t explain

For Fun

Go to a Cubs game at Wrigley Field.           I guess we’ll do this next year.

Take the telescope out

Go night hiking                      Hoping to do this this fall after the bugs die.

Visit 5 new (to me) state parks. (1/5)

Go to a movie by myself.                  This fall, maybe? Genna’s old enough.

Go roller-skating.

Have Randy teach me to juggle.

Host a movie night.

Go to a fun indie craft fair in another city.

Go to a festival.                           I mean, I went to the Arts Festival, but I was thinking of something more fun.

Other

Participate in postcrossing; use cards as basis for hs learning

Decide on a proper memorial for the babies and do it

Take the time to give myself awesome sausage rolls.

Write a letter to myself, to be opened in 10 years.                   Need to find time to do these.

Write a letter to each child, to be opened in 10 years.          Need to find time to do these.

Write a letter to Randy, to be opened in 10 years.                  Need to find time to do these.

Enter a contest.

(counts as 5) Do 5 Learning to Love You More assignments (0/5)